Before starting afresh in 2013 it's good to review the
year that has now gone.
2012 was a really interesting year for me - so much
brilliance and so much ordinary.
So in no particular order, but let's get the bad out the way first::
What pissed me off : My
Body
Which failed me at the very worst time, the lead up to
my holiday! Yep, the triple comedy that was a crook foot, followed by second
degree burns, and then a knee injury. I'm done telling the story, if you don't
know...well, you're probably very lucky! I shall now endeavour to resolve the
flab that came with all the resting!
Honourable mentions go to Telstra ( need I say more!?! ); 50 Shades
of everything ( misogynistic, poorly written, sad and obviously written by a
virgin or someone who has only ever had bad sex!!! ); Newcastle Council ( you know, the ones who killed our beloved trees
); People who can't use social networking (mostly
Facebook) properly ( get a dictionary for starters...I could go on...I won't...
) ; and Work ( well, I feel I have done some
of my best work this year, yet things didn't quite go according to plan, but you
can't keep a good Capricorn down for long!!! )
Live Performance of the Year: Tex Perkins singing at
RocKwiz Live
Tex Perkins singing Iggy Pop's The Passenger...the
coolest thing I have ever seen and sooo S/Texy...oh my!
Shout outs to Hall and Oates, Icehouse (finally!!), and
the 80s show at Lizottes.
Book of the Year: Life by Keith Richards AND A
Moveable Feast by Hemingway
I loved Life so much I haven't actually finished it, I
like to savour the good ones, and reading A Moveable Feast in Paris no less AND
bought at Shakespeare and Company shot it straight into my top 5 books of all
time.
I mostly read travel guides on France and Italy, but the
few books I did read were outstanding. Haruki Murakami's Norwegian Wood was
stunning; The Hobbit was outstanding, and Jeff Apter's biog of Marc Hunter was
an eye opener.
Album of the Year: Tom Waits, Bad as
me
I have no words to express how much I love Tom...and
that's before he starts singing, sometimes I think I love the idea of him more
than his music, but oh I love his music and this album was his best in
years...and yes it came out late 2011, but it was what I played over and over at
the beginning of 2012.
Runner up was Jack White's Blunderbass but I just got
the new Dylan and after one listen this might go to no 2!
Other honourable mentions, Patti Smith's Banga, Wrecking
Ball by Bruce Springsteen, both Martha and Rufus Wainwright, and I also listened to
Adele a lot in the beginning of the year!
However the album most played would be 101 hits of the
70s - this was outstanding!!!
Also discovery of the year, BB Brunes - cool French Band
and my Paris radio station that I can stream over the net.
TV show of the year : Mad Men...hands
down!
Oh Don Draper, I finally discovered you and overdosed on
S1-4 in one sitting, saw most of S5 on the plane.
Besides the brilliant attention to detail and the
fabulous clothes that Joan wears, wonderfully layered characters, and well
written storylines, I love the relationship between Don and Peggy - when she
leaves in season 5 and he holds her hand just a little bit too long, my heart
was breaking...
Other favs - and this was a great year for tele - are
in no particular order, The Walking Dead (so much more than Zombies), Breaking Bad (it's as badass as you can get, but superb), Dexter (the first year I felt uncomfortable watching, because I suspect things will not end well for our anti-hero, now that's stunning storytelling), Parks and
Recreation (Fabulous ensemble cast, but Nick Offerman's Ron Swanson and Rob Lowe's idiot must be two of the funniest characters on TV), Portlandia (dumpster diving, unicorns, Aimee Mann, Hippy Bookshops and Agent Copper as The Mayor...oh and that's before 'Put a bird on it'), Moone Boy (Fabulous soundtrack including Sultans of Ping theme song, great characters, digs at Bono and The Hoff, perfect lead and Chris O'Dowd), Hit and Miss (Chloe Sevigny as a transexual assassin who discovers she has a son...say no more), Sons of Anarchy (it's trashy, but hypnotic), Gossip girl (I have no shame in saying how much I love this show and Chuck Bass!),
Once upon a time (clever, mystifying and Robert Carlyle steals and chews every scene as the creepy yet sexy Rumpelstiltskin), and Smash (Broadway, Marilyn, great cast including Debra Messing, Angelica Huston and the gorgeous Jack Davenport)...I was at home a lot saving for my
trip!
Movie of the year: Hugo, closely followed by
Moonrise Kingdom
I adore Scorsese and I adore silent film, how can this
beautiful film not by my no 1? Moonrise Kingdom was another great film with
another quirky ensemble by Wes Anderson. It was funny and cute (in a good way), but as always the attention to detail in set design and script are what makes Anderson one of the best.
Other films I loved were The Avengers (Joss, you did good!), The Hobbit (a little blown out in parts, but still close to perfection), The
Sapphires (great Australian film with humour and music, yet an underlying strength with history and drama), Hysteria (sooo funny and clever), This must be the place (very odd, but nuanced performance by Sean Penn as an aging goth rocker tracking down the Nazi who ill-treated his father in WWII), Rum Diaries (very suave, Depp as I prefer him), Marley (the most balanced doco yet on Bob, great music of course), The Artist (Oscar winning film of the year and utterly charming) and
Where do we go now (Nadine Labaki's follow up to Caramel, a dramedy set in Lebanon). Add in the Italian and Silent Film festivals and it was a
good year at the cinemas.
Quote of the year: I'm Chuck
Bass
As spoken by said character...a lot, but mostly as
quoted by the writers of Gossip Girl when asked the best line they wrote...yep,
"I'm Chuck Bass" well played GG writers, well played!!!
The above also wins vacuousness of the year,
lol!!!
Other things that made me smile ear to ear and
pretty much made my year
TWITTER - oh my, so much distraction, so much
fabulousness, so many outstanding people
FRIENDS - this was definitely the year of the friend,
all my wonderful 'old' friends, and all my new friends who I have met IRL thru
twitter - lucky and blessed I am!!!
NEW HAIRDRESSER - finally!!!!
BEATLES BOXSET IN VINYL- Wow, just wow, so much perfection, I
have no words
OH YEAH AND THEN THERE WAS MY EUROPEAN
VACATION which contained so much awesomeness I need a whole other blog
to write about it, hang on...I already have...check out my
archives!!!!
And NO, I cannot pick ONE favourite place or thing....I
loved it all!!!!!
And finally, I turned 42 in 2012, and as Hitchhikers fans know Douglas Adams ( or rather Deep Thought
in the book ) wrote that 42 is the Answer to the Ultimate Question of Life, the
Universe, and Everything.
So, do I have the answers...ummm, not
really!
However, I have more clarity and understanding of my own
life than I ever had, quite possibly this will continue as I turn 43, 44 etc
etc...or at least I hope so!
But maybe DA is right, this is the first time I felt like I
get what I am about...and let's face it, only I can really get myself, so that
has to be some kind of answer.
2012 may have presented me with some dead ends and annoyances, but it
also presented me with some of the most marvelous moments I have ever
experienced and this is what will lead me into 2013.
And it makes me want to experience even more, so rather
than have New Year's Resolutions, which let's face it are usually screwed within
a week of making them, I have a list of 42 things I want to do while I am 42 and
I hope you will all join me for the ride that will be 2013...my best year
ever??????
1. Finish sorting my holiday photos
2. Reorganize my study - this may take me all
year
3. Have one night a week where I turn off all
electronics and read
4. Walk more and explore my
own surroundings...there is so much I haven't seen in Newcastle, Lake Macquarie
and other areas nearby
5. Read more of my own books. I tend to purchase these,
but they get pushed aside for books I bring home from work
6. More live music - the very poor list above is very
abnormal for me. I'm open to pretty much anything, though snooty about
venues!
7. Learn to cook 5 basic, healthy meals I can whip up
easily
8. Don't let the things that usually bother me, irritate
me too much
9. Go on a picnic, cannot remember the last one I
had
10. Learn Yoga
11. Music: Join an appropriate choir or musical
group and practice my instruments more
often
12. Care less what people think of me...I got better at
this in 2012, but still have a long way to go
13. Write more, post on my blog more
regularly
14. Whip my little backyard back into shape
15. Spend more time outdoors and less time
indoors
16. Go to Hunter Valley Gardens...never
been...really!!!
17. Mini breaks to my favourite places - Melbourne (not
been since 2011!!), The Blue Mountains, Mid North Coast, and try new
ones
18. Pamper myself more including have regular soaks in the tub
19. Eat and drink out more
20. Get through my list of local restaurants and
cafes
21. Go to more films at Film Society than
2012
22. Wash my car more often
23. Spend more time with my niece and
nephew
24. Learn chess
25. Paint more
26. Go to the farmers markets regularly
27. Really listen to music...eg in the dark with a glass
of something something...no distractions
28. Entertain more
29. Rearrange, redecorate and spruce up my
place
30. Say no or at least I'll need to get back to you on
that one to the people I always say yes to that usually let me down
31. Have fun and laugh more at work
32. Live up to my Librarian of Leisure
handle
33. Go to lots of fun social events
34. Make sure those that mean the most to me know that
they do
35. Go swimming
36. Take time to do nothing and daydream more
often
37. Reinstate Sunday culture afternoons at galleries,
museums, and secondhand bookstores
38. Finish knitting the scarf I started 3 winters
ago
39. Go on more dates...might need help with this
one...anyone, anybody!?!
40. Trust my instincts more
41. Have more fun
42. Surprise myself
So, thank you to everyone who joined me on my 2012
journey. Your friendship, company, love and support helped me through the bad
times and made the good times even more enjoyable.
Here's to a wonderful 2013, may all your dreams and
wishes come true and I hope you will join me in completing my 42 things :)
Below is a gorgeous quote I found and used last year
from one of my favourite authors, Neil Gaiman...it's timeless...